Omaha Film Festival

98 Films, 6 Days

Winning two All Film Access Passes through KVNO radio station https://kvno.org/ introduced us to an Omaha event we thoroughly appreciated and enjoyed and plan to support and attend annually.

What is it?

The 19th Annual Omaha Film Festival (OFF) https://omahafilmfestival.org/ held February 27-March 3, 2024 at the Aksarben Theatre in Omaha, Nebraska showcased 98 films through special screenings, feature films, documentary films, a Nebraska spotlight film, and short films.

The event also included a Saturday Scriptwriters Theatre where live reads from selected excerpts from the 2024 screenplay finalists were done. And, notably, a two-day OFF Academy open to 7th-12th grade Omaha students was held to educate, entertain and inspire future filmmakers.

How Films are Selected

Local and international filmmakers submit their work to OFF each year from May through December. A selection committee then selects the narrative features, short films, documentaries and screenplays to be shown at the festival.  

The selected filmmakers are invited to attend the festival. They are given the opportunity to discuss their films with the audience through a Q&A session after each screening.

Festival Highlight

Marc Longbrake, OFF Executive Director & Wait for Me Film Director, Keith Farrell, UK.

Viewing independent films with filmmakers from across the world in the theatre adds to the experience. Listening to them describe their passion, processes, joys and challenges after viewing the films is something you should experience.

Audiences vote for the Audience Choice Awards through ballots after each film. These awards and 18 others are presented at the festival’s conclusion. 

Event Cost & Passes

The 2024 festival offered four different ways to experience the festival.

All Access Passes

  • Access to all screenings throughout the festival
  • Entry to the Writers Theatre
  • Access to the nightly after parties
  • Event t-shirt

All Films Pass

  • Access to all screenings throughout the festival
  • Entry to Writers Theatre

Weekend Pass

  • Access to all screenings
  • Entry to Writers Theatre
  • Access to Saturday & Sunday after parties

Film Ticket

  • $10 per film

HINT: In 2023 the Festival held a Black Friday sale announced on their Instagram site. https://www.instagram.com/omahafilmfest/

2024 Films at Event

Click on the Film Guide link https://off24.eventive.org/films  for more information on films shown during the 2024 Omaha Film Festival.

Films We Chose to See

  • JunctionDrama on opioid epidemic telling the story of how a doctor, an addict and a pharmaceutical company CEO are all interconnected.
  • Scrap-Drama/Comedy about a single-mom living in a car and hiding her status from her estranged brother who’s caring for her daughter.
  • The Body Politic-documentary on Baltimore’s young, idealistic mayor, Brandon Scott, and his vigilant attempt to halt chronic violence in his city. Awarded Audience Favorite Documentary.
  • Wait for MeDrama/Thriller from the United Kingdom focusing on prostitution, troubled pasts and making better choices.
  • Brave the Dark-Drama based on a true story about Nate, who attended the festival, and a drama teacher who became his true father. Awarded Audience Choice Feature Film & Critics Best Feaature Film.
  • The Headliner-Nebraska spotlight film about an Omaha comedian trying to reach a larger stage while also meeting family obligations.
  • Two Lives in Pittsburgh-Drama about a blue collar guy confronting his animated mother’s illness and his child’s exploration of gender. Awarded Critics Feature Film Honorable Mention.
  • Step Over-Italian Drama with English captions about a legendary soccer player who had it all and then didn’t.
  • Tokyo CowboyJapanese Drama with English captions about a Japanese businessman who visits a Montana cattle ranch and learns what matters most in his life.

OFF Results-Winners

Visit the Omaha Film Festival website to see a complete list of the winners by category. https://omahafilmfestival.org/

IMDb

IMDb (Internet movie database) is an online database of information related to films, television series, podcasts, home videos, video games, and streaming content online – including cast, production crew and personal biographies, plot summaries, trivia, ratings, and fan and critical reviews.

Log in to https://www.imdb.com/ for ratings, reviews and where to watch these movies.

Ways to Support OFF

The Omaha Film Festival is a non-profit 501c3 non-profit organization.

You can support its efforts of bringing independent films to the Omaha area several ways.

Final Thoughts

  • Some have said that film festivals are for left-winged or radical people. That was not our experience.
  • We are not film buffs by any standard, yet we enjoyed not only viewing the films but also interacting with attendees, filmmakers and the legions of volunteers at the OFF.
  • (Interesting note: No one associated with the Omaha Film Festival receives a salary, including the hard-working, gregarious Executive Director, Marc Longbrake).
  • Our favorite films aligned with those receiving audience awards. Each of these films can inspire social change or, at the very least, leave you examining your current way of thinking about the film’s content.
  • Except for Saturday and Sunday, the films started after 5PM and ended by 10PM.
  • Aksarben Cinema https://www.acxcinemas.com/aksarben-cinema is a locally owned theatre with comfortable reclining and rocking seats. It has a full bar and offers a very limited menu in addition to the standard theatre popcorn, soda and candy.
  • Most restaurants in the Aksarben area close at or before festival films conclude. Plan accordingly.
  • There is plenty of free parking surrounding the Aksarben Cinema.

Credit

Thanks again to KVNO for the passes and for introducing us to this spectacular, well-run event.

©March2024 Linda Leier Thomason. All Rights Reserved.

Anguilla: Everything You Need to Know Before Going

Aboard boat from St. Maarten to Anguilla.

We left Omaha, Nebraska’s record-setting cold temperatures and snowfall in mid-January 2024 for the tranquil island of Anguilla, the most northerly of the Eastern Caribbean’s Leeward Islands.

Anguilla is 12 miles north of St. Maarten and 60 miles northwest of St. Kitts and Nevis.

This British overseas territory is only 16 miles long and 3 miles wide at its widest point. It boasts a mean temperature of 80 degrees.

History

Click this link to learn about Anguilla’s history.  Government of Anguilla – About Anguilla – Tourism – Anguilla History

Getting There

Anguilla (rhymes with vanilla) is off-the-beaten-path.

We were able to access the island by flying into St. Maarten from Atlanta, GA via Delta Airlines.

Princess Juliana International Airport (SXM) is on the Dutch side of St. Martin and is close to the shore of Simpson Bay Lagoon. This airport is famous for its low-altitude flyover landing approaches.

We can testify that it is the second busiest airport in the Caribbean since it serves as a hub for many smaller islands. The lines to get through Customs and Immigration were exceedingly long as two large aircrafts from the USA had landed within minutes of each other. (Restrooms, accessible outside while waiting in line, are available.)

Thankfully we were part of the Edward Jones Travel Award Program and were led through Customs and Immigration in time to catch our boat ride to Anguilla where we again cleared Customs and Immigration and eventually claimed our luggage.

Know Before Traveling

Public Beaches in Anguilla

Anguilla is ringed with 33 public beaches.

We visited several. Each was stunningly white with powder soft sand.

While we were there, the waters on Rendezvous Bay by our property were choppy due to very high winds. Each day there were red flag warnings preventing us, and most guests, from entering the unsafe waters.

📷Linda Leier Thomason Alternative to red flag beach warnings: Infinity edge pool at Aurora Anguilla.

Currency

US currency is widely accepted, though the Eastern Caribbean dollar (XCD) is their official currency. (The exchange rate is fixed at 2.70 XCD for $1USD.)

Electricity

110 Volts, AC

Type A and B electric plugs (the same as in the US and Canada)

Language

Anguilla is British dependent territory where English is spoken.

Time

Anguilla operates on Atlantic Standard time year-round. If it’s 1PM in Anguilla, it’s 11AM in Chicago and Noon in Boston, etc.

Our Accommodations: Aurora Anguilla Resort & Golf Club

Aurora Anguilla Resort | Your Caribbean Paradise Awaits

The resort is on the Southwestern coast of Anguilla, facing the neighboring island of Saint Martin. There are 178 villas and suites set on 380 acres running along over 2 miles of spectacular white sand beaches.

The property is stunning, exceptionally maintained and staffed with knowledgeable, friendly, service-oriented hospitality staff.

Entertainment Park

In January 2024, the Aurora Entertainment Park on the property opened. Entertainment Park | Fun and Thrills Await at Aurora Anguilla

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Guest from outside of the property can purchase tickets to the Entertainment Park. Admission is complimentary for resort guests. SquadUP – Create an Event, Share an Experience

The complex includes tennis, pickle ball, table tennis, miniature golf, volleyball, basketball, a climbing wall, a water park complex, kids club and a teen center.

A 500-seat amphitheater hosts events, including live music events and karaoke nights. Check the daily schedule.

Food trucks were on site in the dining court during our visit.

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On-Site Tours & Classes

Guests can enjoy tours of the hydroponic farm on the Aurora Anguilla site, cooking classes, wine tastings, and golf clinics with PGA-certified professionals.

📷Linda Leier Thomason Hydroponic Farm tour.

Golf

Golf at Aurora Anguilla | A Golfer’s Paradise

Aurora Anguilla is home to the only golf course on the island, including the International Course, which was recently ranked #2 best Caribbean course.

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Dining Scene

We were impressed by Anguilla’s culinary scene.

It has over 100 restaurants serving diverse and delicious dishes using fresh local flavors from the land and sea. (Goat is the most popular meat.)

Be sure to try local specialties like crayfish, lobster, johnnycakes and goat curry.

Restaurants serving Mexican, Italian and French cuisine are also available.

Keep in mind that most of the food is imported because farming is both difficult and space is limited in Antigua, increasing food costs.

The average daily spending on food is about $122 per person.

Use this link to create a list of restaurants to try while on the island.

8 Best Restaurants in Anguilla of 2024 (destination-magazines.com)

Getting Around

Requirements for Driving in Anguilla

Guide to Driving In Anguilla – Drive Safe in Anguilla (rhinocarhire.com)

Rent a Moke

Moke Anguilla

A Moke is a type of open-top vehicle popular in Anguilla. It’s a fun way to explore this small island’s beaches, bars and other attractions.

Hints

  • Vehicles drive on the left.
  • Speed limit is 30MPH.
  • There are only 6 traffic lights on the island.

Chauffeur

Not renting a vehicle? Let Simba chauffeur you.

He’s an excellent, professional driver with a clean vehicle. He’s also a police officer on the island.

Things to Do

Anguilla is a paradise for travelers who love nature, beauty, and relaxation.

Guided Tour

We spent a morning with Mr. Bernard B. Wattley touring the island and learning about the history and culture of Anguilla and how Anguillans live (school, church, government, family life, etc.)

There is nothing like hearing about a vacation destination from one who has lived on the island his entire life.

Ask any native Anguillan if they know Mr. Wattley. The answer is always, “Yes.”  He’s a retired public servant and educator who remains active in local government.

Visit the Arch

The Anguilla Arch is a natural limestone arch on the western tip of Anguilla near Cove Bay and West Bay beaches. It is known for its stunning beauty and its dramatic location. Access it by hiking along the cliff-side coast or taking a boat tour.

Bankie Banx

HOME | banx (bankiebanx.net)

Next door to the Aurora Anguilla Resort sits Dune Preserve DUNE PRESERVE | banx (bankiebanx.net) where renowned musician Bankie Banx performs on select days.

Check the weekly schedule for reservations and performances.

Sandy Ground

Anguilla Beaches Walk… Sandy Ground Beach and Village (anguilla-beaches.com)

Hint: The area is as the name implies-sandy. Wear appropriate footwear.

Summer Festival in Conjunction with Emancipation Day

Anguilla’s Emancipation Day is celebrated the first Monday in August, known as August Monday.  It commemorates the abolition of slavery in 1834.

The Speed Boat Festival which is part of the Anguilla Summer Festival is also held then.

Unlike many Caribbean countries where cricket is the national sport, in Anguilla boat racing is their national sport.

The Speed Boat Festival is a thrilling competition where speed boats race around the island, stopping at different beaches and cays along the way. Participants and spectators enjoy music, food and drink at each stop.

Safety

Anguilla is generally a safe and peaceful island.

However, it is still vulnerable to natural disasters, such as hurricanes, earthquakes, and volcanic eruptions, which can cause damage, disruption, or danger. 

Anguilla has a very low crime rate compared to other Caribbean islands, but it is not immune to crime.

Violent crimes and kidnappings are rare. Visitors are always encouraged to be alert to their surroundings and practice safety measures.

According to the Royal Anguilla Police Force, the most frequent crimes in Anguilla for the third quarter of 2020 were:

  • Theft: 97 cases
  • Burglary: 33 cases
  • Criminal damage: 17 cases
  • Robbery: 7 cases
  • Assault: 6 cases

Taxes

Anguilla is a beautiful island in the Caribbean, but it is also one of the most expensive destinations in the region with high rates for accommodations, food and taxes.

In January 2024, the goods and services tax (GST) was 13%. Another 15% service tax is added when dining out. In addition to those taxes, there is an expectation that a minimum of $5 per server also be given.

Tidbits

  • There are no shopping malls, cruise ships or high-rise hotels on Anguilla. It is a low-key island.
  • Anguilla does not have an official Independence Day, as it is still a British overseas territory. However, it has a national day called Anguilla Day, which is celebrated on May 30th every year.  This day honors the island’s determination of independence from Saint Kitts and Nevis in 1967.
  • Anguilla’s peak tourist season is December through April. Low season is May to November. Be aware that many hotels close, especially August-October for maintenance, renovation or vacation.
  • If you visit Anguilla during low season, there is a possibility of hurricanes and reduced availability of services. However, you may also find less crowds and lower prices at places that remain open. Do your research.
  • Staying awhile, visit the west end Best Buy grocery store.
  • Small galleries and boutiques are mostly concentrated in the capital area of Anguilla called The Valley. There is a duty-fee shop in the St. Maarten airport worth checking out.

More Information

More Information

For information on Anguilla please visit the official website of the Anguilla Tourist Board: Visit Anguilla | The Official Travel Guide of Anguilla | ivisitanguilla.com

©February2024 Linda Leier Thomason. All Rights Reserved.

Everything You Need to Inspire a Trip to Slovenia

Natural Disasters

Let’s hope the trend of natural disasters ends with this recent journey.

In February 2023 our New Zealand trip was diverted to Brisbane, Australia due to Cyclone Gabrielle. Highlights & Pitfalls of 2 Weeks in Australia – Linda Leier Thomason

August 4, 2023, when we arrived in Ljubljana, Slovenia, the country was experiencing record-setting flooding with widespread damage.  Slovenia – Record Rain and Floods Cause Widespread Damage – FloodList

Our destination was Portoroz, Slovenia in the southern part of the country where it was raining but not flooding.

On any other day the drive from the capital city of Ljubljana (translates as ‘the loved one’) to Portoroz is 90 minutes. This day it took nearly three hours as many highways were understandably closed.

Sitting in the tour bus, we flashbacked to the multiple times as former Charleston, South Carolina residents, we evacuated preparing for hurricanes to come ashore.

The clogged highway and feelings of uncertainty were evident and felt.

A link if you’re inspired to donate to the re-building efforts in Slovenia.

Donate to Floods in Slovenia Emergency – GlobalGiving

How to Get There & Back: USA

We flew on United Airlines from Omaha, Nebraska to Chicago O’ Hare International Airport. There we boarded Lufthansa-the flag carrier of Germany. This airline is also one of the five founding members of Star Alliance, the world’s largest airline alliance founded in 1997. Home – Star Alliance

The aircraft, personnel and service each provided a sense of comfort and security for the 8 hour and 20-minute journey to Frankfurt, Germany. There, after clearing Customs, we were transported via a bus on the tarmac to board a regional carrier for Ljubljana. Upon arrival in Slovenia, no immigration and customs checks were necessary at the Ljubljana airport.

Our return flight departed from Munich instead of Frankfurt-a 9 hour and 50-minute trip back to Chicago. The flight was delayed out of Germany causing us to miss our connection to Omaha.

Lufthansa provided generous vouchers for lodging and food. Unlike the February 2023 experience, this was seamless and hospitable.

Much gratitude to Lufthansa for a very favorable travel experience.

Slovenia’s Location & Recent History

Slovenia is the size of New Jersey.

In 2023, the population is 2.12 million. There are 212 municipalities.

It once was part of Yugoslavia.

Today it is a democratic republic founded on the principle of the separation of powers into legislative, executive and judicial power.

Most of the people are Roman Catholic.

Statehood Day is a holiday that occurs every June 25th. It commemorates the country’s declaration of independence from Yugoslavia in 1991. Slovenia’s declaration jumpstarted the Ten-Day War with Yugoslavia, which it eventually won.

Statehood Day is not to be confused with Slovenia’s Independence and Unity Day which is celebrated each year on December 26th in honor of the December 26, 1990, official proclamation of the results of the plebiscite held three days earlier in which 88.5% of all Slovenian voters were in favor of Slovenia becoming a sovereign nation.

On January 15, 1992, the independence of Croatia and Slovenia was recognized by the international community. Slovenia, Croatia, and Bosnia and Herzegovina would later be admitted as member states of the United Nations on May 22, 1992. Macedonia was admitted as a member state of the United Nations on April 8, 1993; its membership approval took longer than the others due to Greek objections.

Interestingly, Croatia’s Independence Day is celebrated on the same day, as the two countries declared their statehood and recognized each other’s sovereignty on the same day.

Interesting Facts about Slovenia

  • Slovenia is the only country in the world with the word love in its name.
  • It is known to be one of the safest countries in the world.
  • The currency of Slovenia is the Euro.
  • Electric converters and adapters are necessary in the country if you’re from the USA.
  • Lake Bled is the most popular tourist destination. All You Need To Know To Visit Lake Bled In Slovenia – Travel Slovenia (The tour we’d scheduled here prior to leaving the USA was cancelled due to the severe flooding.) This is the most famous wedding place in Slovenia. Tradition says the groom must carry his bride up the 99 steps to ensure a long and happy marriage.
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  • Brown bears roam the Slovenian forests. We were told by multiple tour guides that Slovenia now exports bears to surrounding countries. All You Need to Know to Meet With the Wild Slovenia Bears | Slovenia Tour
  • 1 out of every 200 people in this nation is a beekeeper. Like neighboring Croatia, Slovenia is known for an abundance of lavender fields. Strolling amongst the fields of Slovenian lavender in Starše (itinari.com)
  • NBA player, Luka Doncic, and former first lady, Melania Trump, are Slovenian natives.
  • It is the country with the largest number of tractors per person: One in 17 in 2023.
  • Salt farming occurs on the coast south of Piran. Piran and salt pans | I feel Slovenia
  • Slovenia has diverse and beautiful natural settings. More than 61% of Slovenia’s total land area is covered in forest. This makes Slovenia one of the greenest countries in the world. It combines the Alps, the Mediterranean, the Pannonian Plain and the Karst. Slovenia contains 250 waterfalls.
  • Slovenia is home to the Lipizzaner horse-a national symbol of Slovenia.
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  • There are 46 different dialects in Slovenia. The Slovene language is the primary language followed by German and English. Speaking English with locals was never a problem.
  • Slovenia has more than 10,000 caves with 22 open to the public. Postojna Cave, the biggest and the longest cave system in the world, is the most popular. Postojna Cave Park (postojnska-jama.eu)
  • Slovenes love their wine, they are the sixth biggest consumers of wine per capita. There is one winery or vineyard for every 75 people. The oldest vine in the world is in Slovenia’s second largest city, Maribor; it has been producing grapes since the 16th century.
  • Piran, Slovenia on the southern coast is a must-see destination. It is a short walk or public bus ride from Portoroz and is filled with interesting architecture, art, shops, cozy cafes and restaurants.

Southern Coast-Where We Stayed & Toured

As part of the Edward Jones Travel Award Program (TAP), we stayed at the Kempinski Palace Hotel in the center of Portoroz, Istria, Slovenia. On the above map it is near Piran (bottom left). 5 Star Luxury Hotel in Portoroz, Slovenia | Kempinski Palace Portoroz

The property is divided into two buildings: original and modern. We were housed in the original building on the 5th floor with a hillside view. NOTE: The property does accept pets. Irons and ironing boards are not in individual rooms, but available upon request.

The staff, the fitness center, swimming pool (indoor and outdoor) and sauna areas were outstanding. Some of the best we’ve experienced in our travels.

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Piran Day Trips

We spent most of two days in the city of Piran.

One day was a sponsored scenic group city walking tour highlighting Piran’s most interesting and fascinating sights. Tartini Square-a Venetian feeling square of white marble surrounded by wonderful architecture dedicated to its most famous citizen-Guiseppe Tartini- a violinist and composer- was always bursting with activity. All You Need To Know To Visit Tartini Square In Piran, Slovenia (travelslovenia.org)

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We were fortunate to tour the Guiseppe Tartini Memorial Room and listen to a performance from a local award-winning violinist: a trip highlight.

📷www.lindaleierthomason.com Talented violinist.

Another day we walked along the seawall to Piran, stopping often to take in the spectacular views.

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Piran feels and looks like many Italian cities. Residents and guests alike move in a relaxed manner and comfortably rest and visit wherever is desirable and convenient.

One could spend days in this city, exploring, shopping, eating gelato, drinking coffee and enjoying many fine restaurants.

NOTES:

  1. Toilets are scarce and many require a Euro coin to use. Be prepared.
  2. Mercator is the largest retail company/supermarket chain in Slovenia. One is within a very comfortable walking distance of the Kempinski Hotel in Portoroz, and multiple stores are in Piran.
  3. On our trip, city bus drivers were not helpful. Work with the hotel concierge to determine which public bus route to use if you plan to ride the bus in the coastal region.
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Family-Friendly Portoroz

Within minutes of the front door of the hotel, there are multiple family-friendly recreation and entertainment options for children of all ages to enjoy: land and water. There are also plenty of dining options at all price points.

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📷www.lindaleierthomason.com He and his brother & father doing impressive dives into the sea.

Side Trips from Portoroz

Casino

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We did a Portoroz day hike and happened upon this casino at the hilltop. Since we didn’t have identification (passports) on us, admission was denied.

The views are spectacular and worth the hike up there.

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Olive Farm

📷www.lindaleierthomason.com 100+ year old olive tree on farm.

We enjoyed an informational tour and buffet dinner with live music at the olive processing facility at the Lisjak Olive Farm near Koper, a city on Slovenia’s Adriatic coast.

www.lisjak.com

Our story – Gregor Lisjak extra virgin olive oil

Lisjak – Official Guide to the World’s Best Olive Oils

📷www.lindaleierthomason.com Memorable evening at olive farm.

Other Side Trips

Portorož to Venice – 5 ways to travel via train, bus, ferry, car, and shuttle (rome2rio.com)

Bike and motorbike hire – Portorož – Piran (portoroz.si)

Home | Piran, Slovenia | Vintage Boat Tours (vintage-boat-tours.com)Gastronomy | Slovensko podeželje | Združenje turističnih kmetij Slovenije (farmtourism.si)

More Information

Slovenia International Travel Information (state.gov)

Portorož – Piran (portoroz.si)

Piran and salt pans | I feel Slovenia

The BEST Slovenia Tours and Things to Do in 2023 – FREE Cancellation | GetYourGuide

Tours, sightseeing tours, activities & things to do | Viator.com

Final Thoughts

First and foremost, we are extremely grateful for the opportunity to travel and to experience the world with Ken’s peers.

Slovenia is a hidden gem. It is relatively easy to reach. Once there, the people are friendly and getting around is exceptionally easy. They even drive on the same side of the road as we do in America.

No matter where we went, we felt safe, regardless of the time of day.

Portoroz is very walkable for all levels of mobility.

Since there is so much of the world we have yet to see, we seldom say we’d return to a place we’ve previously visited.

Portoroz, Slovenia is the exception. We’d return, hopefully with our family in tow.

LIKE & SHARE & Definitely let me know if you’ve made a trip to Slovenia. What were the highlights? Any pitfalls?

©August2023 Linda Leier Thomason. All Rights Reserved.

Rural Upbringing Led to Being a Pilot

“There’s more to life than being a passenger.”-Amelia Earhart.

Kallan Christman, a Clark, South Dakota native and New York City resident, perfectly epitomizes her aviator idol’s quote.

This 29-year-old natural red head and pilot has taken many paths in life, usually in unconventional and out-of-the-ordinary ways.

Kallan & her strongest influencers: Parents Wendy & Rodney.

Rural Influences & Mentors

An active Future Farmers of America (FFA) member, Callan enjoyed building, participating and leading. She credits instructor and FFA advisor Greg Janisch, as well as her parents, for making her feel that neither her small community upbringing nor her gender would ever hold her back. “Janisch knew how to direct my misplaced energy and turn it into something successful.”

“My parents encouraged me to love thy neighbor, try new things and take everything as it comes. They’ve supported all my crazy dreams and ambitions from day one.”  

Growing up on a farm Kallan learned no job is gender specific. “I was encouraged and expected to fix fences, work cattle and mow hay. I was never raised to think women shouldn’t or couldn’t be doing those things.”

Being raised on a farm also taught her to keep going when things get tough. “My parents couldn’t give up whenever there was a speedbump. We had to keep the operation running even if it didn’t rain, if we lost a calf or maybe when the markets weren’t in our favor.”

She took these examples with her throughout her journey of getting to the airlines.

“I believed I could do anything I set my mind to.”

Not a Straight Line to Becoming a Pilot

Kallan easily admits her journey to becoming a commercial airline pilot was not a straight line. In fact, she says if she could change anything about her life it would be earlier and greater exposure to career opportunities.

“It would’ve been nice to be exposed to the opportunity of aviation and to know it was a career option.”

Instead, she graduated from Northern State University (NSU) in 2016 with a music education degree. “I was raised in a musical family. It was something that made sense to me and helped me find a ‘category’ I belonged to.”

Attending her best friend’s flight attendant graduation in Minneapolis changed her life’s path. “Hearing them talk about the job, the benefits and all the travel piqued my attention.”

Flight Attendant

She shifted her career focus and became a flight attendant for just under 5 years, loving it.  Kallan worked a lot of international flights, especially appreciating layovers, particularly in Scotland, Iceland and England.

“I’ve been to over 30 countries because of this job. I’ve eaten so many kinds of food, met so many people from all over the world and saw landscapes I could only have dreamt about as a young girl in South Dakota.”

What’s not so great is mean passengers. “Passenger aggression has got out of hand. People are attacking flight attendants and mistreating fellow passengers as well. It is very concerning to me because flying used to be such a fun and exciting experience. The lack of humanity is truly surprising.”

Pilot

Kallan’s curiosity and belief that gender is not a barrier to career success spawned quickly in her aviation career. About 18 months into being a flight attendant, she took a discovery flight to learn about the pilot side of things. The mix of adventure, challenge and pay intrigued her.

She also had the chance to enter the flight deck on an unoccupied plane being repositioned at the airport. There she got to see what happens on the other side of the door and why pilots loved flying.

“It was such an amazing experience to see what made that big tube fly. I was instantly interested and had a newfound appreciation.”

Kallan quickly learned becoming a pilot takes both a lot of time and money. Seldom do those exist simultaneously.

She worked full-time as a flight attendant while getting her ratings.

“Figuring out how to make time to take flight lessons was also quite the hurdle.”

There were many steps involved in being able to fly a commercial airline, each achieved at a south St. Paul, MN aviation school.

All steps required a written test, oral exam and a flight test portion.

  • Private Pilot
  • Instrument Pilot
  • Single Engine Commercial Pilot
  • Certified Flight Instructor
  • Certified Flight Instructor Instrument
  • Multi Engine Commercial Pilot, add on
  • Airline Transport Pilot

It took Kallan 4 months to attain her private pilot’s license and from zero hours to an airline pilot was just under 4 years.

Passing these tests to fly a commercial airline is Kallan’s proudest moment in life to date.

Pilot Role Model

Kallan & 1st female captain she flew with.

Kallan’s personal goal in aviation is to have a lifelong career of big airlines and cool destinations while sharing them with her family and friends.

But she also understands that she is a role model, especially to young girls. “The best part of being a female aviator is that moment when a little girl come onboard, sees me sitting in the flight deck, turns to her parents and says, “Look, a lady pilot!” Sometimes I feel like maybe it sparked interest in another future female pilot.”

“I encourage all women who have an interest to give aviation a try.”

An annual Girls in Aviation Day is held in Eden Prairie, MN where different airlines, flight schools and military pilots come and give young girls a chance to see the variety of career opportunities in aviation.

You Can Take the Girl Out of the Country…

Kallan has enjoyed exploring and living in every city she’s been assigned to, thus far. She quietly reveals, “New York City doesn’t quite have the Midwest manners thing down yet.”

Also, if tomorrow she stepped away from aviation, she’d circle back to the beginning.

“I would ranch and train horses because I love animals more than anything.”

In the meantime,

LISTEN.

She’s probably playing one of her beloved instruments: piano, guitar, ukulele or saxophone.

LOOK AHEAD.

She’s likely buttering a landing.  Urban Dictionary: butter landing

LOOK UP.

This gal may be up there flying a fighter jet and doing aerobatics-her lifetime goal finally achieved, unconventionally, of course.

In Scotland with a Highlander cow.

More Information

Women Pilot Statistics: Female Representation in Aviation – Pilot Institute

WAI | Women in Aviation International Home

FAA Support to Rural Communities | Federal Aviation Administration

Girls in Aviation Day — Stars of the North

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Meet Alissa Patterson

A Woman with Exemplary Strength

Alissa and Kai.

At first glance her beautiful smile, captivating eyes and photogenic dog grab attention. What’s likely missed is the wheelchair 25-year-old Bismarck, North Dakota resident Alissa is seated in.

And that’s just the way she likes it.

“Don’t judge. We all have challenges no matter what we look like. We can overcome them.”

People sometimes assume Alissa has mental challenges or is incapable of having a job because she’s in a wheelchair.

Both assumptions are wrong.

Alissa is many things.

Incapable is not one of them.

She’s a daughter, a sister to six siblings, including a twin brother; a 4-H alum, the 2016 Strasburg, ND High School valedictorian, a 2019 Northern State University (Aberdeen, South Dakota) Homecoming Queen, an aunt, accomplished cook and spouse to Nathan, whom she met in college.

She’s gainfully employed and will receive a Master’s Degree in Social Work (MSW) from Ohio State University’s online program in August 2023.

“I hope to be a case manager or counselor for others with barriers to be successful in their communities. I realize my life could be so much different. I’m fortunate not to have mental health issues. I want to be a resource for those with limitations.”

Diagnosis

Alissa was a 12-year-old sixth grader when a genetic test confirmed her diagnosis: Friedreich’s ataxia (FA).

FA is a rare inherited neuromuscular condition causing progressive damage to one’s nervous system and movement problems, eventually resulting in wheelchair use. FA can also affect the heart.

It does NOT affect cognitive abilities like thinking and reasoning.

Symptoms generally begin between ages 5 and 15 years of age, although sometimes they appear after age 25.

More information at: Friedreich Ataxia | National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke (nih.gov)

Reaction

“I was scared when my parents and I heard this. I remember us all crying. We’d experienced my brother Nathan, who’s 10 years older, struggle as his identical disorder progressed. I didn’t want my parents to feel guilty for my diagnosis.”

Even today she can’t imagine being a parent and having to tell a child they have a life threatening disease and may never get better.

She attended physical therapy twice weekly to slow the progression.

Alissa’s disorder was monitored regularly and she was part of several medical trials at the University of Iowa.

Neuromuscular Multispecialty Clinic | University of Iowa Stead Family Children’s Hospital (uihc.org)

Isolation

As the FA progressed during her high school years, Alissa felt isolated in her rural North Dakota community. “I sensed I was the only one who was different.”

Changes happened at home and at school.

She could no longer help her family with outdoor chores. Instead, she became more responsible for household chores like cooking and cleaning. She had to stop showing animals in 4-H and eventually quit the club.

Nathan and Alissa were the only students with disabilities at school. To accommodate them, railings were placed in hallways for her to grab while walking. Stairs were converted into ramps and because the lunch room required walking stairs, Alissa’s meal was brought to her in a separate room, adding to the feeling of extreme isolation.

Alissa had an Individual Education Program (IEP) allowing her to take notes on her iPad and receive physical therapy every week. But she had to watch classmates during gym class because there were no adaptive options. Again, extremely isolating.

She was able to maintain her strength and walk until she went to college.

Independence

Alissa bucked family preferences by choosing NSU. “I wanted to attend college where I wasn’t known as another student’s twin or ‘that girl that can’t walk.’” Other selection criteria included being far enough away to discourage going home every weekend but close enough to be able to go there on long breaks.

In other words, Alissa wanted to start anew and be more independent by choosing her own friends and hobbies. She also had to become her own best advocate and became familiar with disability services there.

At this point Alissa had an electric chair helping her navigate campus. Her strength remained and she continued to exercise regularly. In class she was allowed to do all her notes and testing online with extra time since her dexterity slowed.

She was an active collegiate. 

As a member of the NSU Honors Program she presented her thesis, “Depression and Perfectionism in People with Friedreich’s Ataxia” at the National Honors Convention in New Orleans and was a peer mentor for the TRIO program, which provides additional support for college freshmen. “I found myself caring about helping students with barriers be successful.” She was twice voted the mentor who exemplified an ideal role model.

She graduated in 3 1/2 years.

Alissa and Nathan.

Acceptance

Alissa admits accepting this diagnosis hasn’t always been easy. “I cry a lot.”

Initially when FA didn’t affect her much, she enjoyed the attention. “It gave me an excuse to not do something I didn’t want to do.”

Today she knows she’s going through stages of grief whenever she loses the ability to do something. “I get quite frustrated when I need help with simple things that used to be easy for me, like picking an item up off the floor, using the oven, or when I fall getting out of bed.”

Alissa doesn’t drive. Her reaction time is too slow. “It’s the most frustrating thing about my disability. Having to rely on other people sucks, no matter how much support you have.”

“Everyone always tells me I’m so positive. I tell them I try to be, but I have bad days too. There are days I feel sorry for myself or jealous of others. I wouldn’t be who I am today without my diagnosis, but I try not to let it define me. I try to find a way to do most things I enjoy. I have so much love and support from others. I want to use my diagnosis for good and know that God has a plan for me.”

Her favorite quotes inspire and motivate her to remain positive. “I see your pain, and it’s big. I also see your courage, and its bigger.” “Just because she carries it well doesn’t mean it’s not heavy.”

Today

She’s working full-time but lacks the energy to work out to maintain her strength. It’s her belief the disease has progressed at a quicker pace in the past few years.

In early 2023, the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) approved omaveloxolone (brand name Skyclarys)-the first treatment for Friedreich’s ataxia (FA).   FDA approves first treatment for Friedreich’s ataxia | FDA.

Alissa is eager to start taking the drug as soon as it’s available, again commuting to Iowa to see the nearest specialist. In the meantime, she continues to have her heart monitored regularly. “There isn’t much any doctor can do.”

Future

North Dakota winters can be difficult for Alissa. Ideally, she and her Washington native husband would like to live in either Arizona or Washington. She craves being outside in nature more often and deeply misses swimming, walking, hiking and biking.

Many women with FA have children and someday Alissa hopes she can experience being a mom too. However, she’s realistic about the challenges and responsibilities of caring for children, especially newborns.

There is a lot to consider regarding family planning. “I can’t be on medications that prevent this disease progression while I’m pregnant.” So, for now, she and Nathan are enjoying the aunt and uncle life.

Alissa envisions herself advocating for others because she knows how difficult it can be while appreciating how truly blessed her life has been with healthy mental health.

Wishes

As for what she wishes for other than a cure for this condition, Alissa keeps it practical: a day of shopping and getting her nails done and then adds, “I’d love to go on a vacation with my husband to Disney or on a cruise. Both of those destinations are accessible.”

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Highlights & Pitfalls of 2 Weeks in Australia

Outstanding Destination Overcame Challenging Journey

My husband Ken’s hard work for and dedication to his Edward Jones clients earned us a reward trip to Australia in February 2023. Since flights to the Southern Hemisphere are expensive and lengthy, we added New Zealand to the itinerary prior to attending the meeting in Sydney.

Mother Nature interfered with that itinerary.

Severe Cyclone Gabrielle devastated the North Island of New Zealand the week we departed Omaha, Nebraska. Yet, United Airlines flew us to Houston, Texas where we learned upon landing that all flights, including our Air New Zealand flight, into Auckland were cancelled not only for that day but for the foreseeable future.

Pivot in Houston

We received a hotel, ground transportation and food voucher from Air New Zealand and were directed to the baggage claim area. While waiting 4+ hours for our luggage to come up at the Houston airport, Ken phoned the corporate travel agency to figure out Plan B. I sat by the luggage carousel and fraternized with many New Zealand citizens, most who’d been here on government or professional business. Each was charming and friendly but also frank in sharing that the USA is seen as country in deterioration in their homeland. Sobering, and disappointing.

Each time Ken raised his hand from his afar seat, I excused myself to hear updates. We jointly decided to add the days we were supposed to be in Queenstown, New Zealand to our Brisbane, Australia itinerary. Ken hustled to the Air New Zealand ticket counter to reroute our trip. Finally, our bags appeared, and I joined him in the ticketing area where I sat guarding the luggage and growing more and more impatient as the hours ticked away.

Keep in mind our flight wasn’t the only one in the world being rerouted. Having experienced impacts of dozens of hurricanes while South Carolina residents, we were understanding of the circumstances but puzzled by the lack of leadership and problem solving from Air New Zealand.

Broken Promises

Frazzled and hungry, we finally made our way to ground transportation. The promised and vouchered shuttle service provided by Radisson Hotel Houston Intercontinental Airport North didn’t exist. A call to the hotel’s front desk confirmed “we do not offer shuttle service.” Surprisingly, for an airport of Houston’s size, there was no taxis in the ground transportation area. We again waited.

The $60 cab ride abruptly ended outside of the hotel’s circle drive as we were greeted by flashing police car lights and swarms of officers outside the hotel. For much needed levity I said, “Ahh, a police escort. What a warm welcome to Houston!” I was wrong.

Keyless Entry

Weirdness continued. In our three decades of traveling, we’ve never had experiences like we did at this property. First, no room keys are issued. Someone from the front desk must let you into your room each time you re-enter. Second, hair dryers, wash cloths, facial tissues and a spare roll of toilet tissue are not present, and housekeeping seemed random as food and beverages were in the room’s refrigerator and closet. Odd, very odd.

Air New Zealand representatives had informed all stranded passengers that a restaurant exists at the hotel. That was a lie, and there was no open restaurant in walking distance. Thank goodness I’d stashed fig bars and crackers in my carry-on bag.

Once let into our room, Ken continued to make calls and get confirmation of changes to our flights, hotel rooms and pre-booked excursions. I repacked our suitcases as two were torn during the 4-hour handling at the Houston airport.

Double Billing

Sunday morning, I learned the hotel shuttle was “not working” yet I was able to convince a hotel desk clerk to allow a male housekeeper to drive us to the nearest Wal-Mart to purchase food and replace our torn backpack. Interesting that the hotel is being paid by the airline for ground transportation that it doesn’t provide but allows individual employees to transport guests in personal vehicles for a ‘fee.’

This same gentleman drove us to the airport to catch a United flight to San Francisco where we’d be on our way to Brisbane, Australia.

Wheels Up

As one would expect with the weather event in that region, every seat was full on the United flight to Brisbane. Stepping on the plane I literally shivered at the condition and age of the aircraft. It scared me. We were ticketed in economy, and I’d have been quite upset if I’d purchased first class or business class. The accommodations were less than desirable, and children of all ages were seated right behind this area. Someone was crying the entire 14-hour journey from San Francisco to Brisbane.

Brisbane, Australia

Few places could entice me away from the USA. Brisbane did and could. I describe it as a perfect blend of Charleston, SC and San Diego, CA. I simply loved it there, feeling safe and at home.

Forbes and GQ Australia have anointed Brisbane, “Australia’s coolest city.”

Brisbane is the capital and most populated city located in the center of the Southeast area of the state of Queensland. It’s also the third most populous city in Australia. The Brisbane River peninsula hosts most of the central business district of this city.

Brisbane is a perfect walking city. Set along the river snaking through parks, the city center, and neighborhoods, we walked with ease to restaurants, entertainment areas and excursions.

Click on the links for more information on Australia trip highlights.

Lodging

Hotel in Brisbane | Brisbane Hotel | Rydges South Bank Brisbane

I’d reached out to our excursion tour guide at Viator seeking lodging recommendations since we wanted to walk to our tour starting points. We were given excellent advice. Both river tours originated from the same location.

Rydges Hotel is an ideal South Bank location: close to restaurants, entertainment, art galleries, excursions, the riverfront, shopping and festivals. We were assigned a river view balcony queen room. It was a near-perfect experience. We’d definitely stay here again.

Food

Restaurants of every type and price point are abundant in the South Bank area. Our favorite was Ahmet’s. Nothing came close to the food quality and service here, though others were good.

Ahmets Turkish – Restaurant in South Bank

Groceries

Woolworth’s in Brisbane is a grocery store within walking distance of the Rydges Hotel in Brisbane.

It was fun to explore food items there and compare them and prices to USA.

Woolworths Supermarket – Buy Groceries Online

Excursions

Each of our non-company sponsored tours was booked prior to our leaving home through Viator. Things to Do, Tickets, Tours & Attractions | 2023 | Viator. The company was fantastic to work with as we had to re-schedule and cancel many bookings due to Cyclone Gabrielle.

Both excursions left from the same area, an easy walk from the Rydges hotel.

What do you think of first when you hear Australia?

If it’s kangaroos or koala’s, we think alike.

A highlight was the Brisbane River Cruise to the Lone Pine Koala Sanctuary.

Lone Pine Koala Sanctuary | Discover Brisbane’s Koala Sanctuary – Australian Wildlife, Family Fun

Australians quickly point out this is a koala not a koala bear.
Fun Fact: There are more kangaroos (50 million vs. 25.7 million) than humans in Australia.

We booked a river cruise and lunch at Breakfast Creek Hotel through Viator after talking to the hotel concierge. Even if you’re not a beer drinker the scenery on the cruise is worth seeing as is partaking in the tea and biscuits served on the cruise.

Breakfast Creek Hotel, Breakfast Creek, QLD

Spiking the keg at the Breakfast Creek Hotel

Shopping

The Queen Street pedestrian mall is an easy walk from the Rydges Hotel. We visited multiple times, including one trip exclusively to replace two suitcases damaged on the trip. Thank goodness for a strong dollar during our February 2023 visit. Queen Street Mall | Brisbane’s iconic shopping strip | Brisbane City Council

Amy, store manager, was not only a fantastic salesperson but also an ideal ambassador for her country. Travel Essentials – Travel Bags, Luggage & more – Strandbags Australia

Additional Brisbane Links

Things to see and do in Brisbane | Brisbane City Council

Travel Guide to Brisbane, Queensland – Tourism AustraliaTHE TOP 10 Brisbane Tours & Excursions in 2023 (viator.com)

Sydney, Australia

Sydney, the capital city of the state of New South Wales, is the most populous city in Australia. It is on the east coast and surrounds the Sydney Harbour.

We arrived after a 90-minute Qantas flight from Brisbane. The check-in process, the employees, the aircraft and the on-board experience were each outstanding.

Since we’d cleared Australian customs landing in Brisbane, we bypassed the long customs lines upon arrival here.

Lodging

This portion of the trip was sponsored by Ken’s employer with a few excursion exceptions.

Shangri-La Hotel as seen from the Sydney Harbour Bridge on morning walk.

A corner room on the 19th floor of the Shangri-La Sydney Luxury Hotel in Sydney | Shangri-La Sydney was our home for six nights. Opening the drapes, this was our view…exactly what I think of when I think of Sydney-the Opera House surrounded by nature’s wonders. We were unable to take in any performances there but did visit it.

Sydney Opera House | Home

The Rocks District of Sydney

The Rocks Tickets & Tours (and other Things to Do in Sydney) (viator.com)

The hotel is nestled in The Rocks district, a charming, historic area north of the Central Business District and northwest of Circular Quay (A tourism neighborhood near the Sydney Opera House. It hosts ferry quays, bus stops and a railway station). It’s a bustling area with plenty of shops, bars, restaurants and offices. Transportation options are plentiful.

1/2 Day City Tour

We were treated to a ½ day city tour which included a brief walking tour of The Rocks area, including a stop at the Observatory. Awesome views of the Harbor are seen from here. One can explore the iconic Sydney Harbour Bridge, including climbing it. We walked it. At the foot of the bridge, we boarded a ferry to return to Circular Quay.

NOTE: Public transportation in Sydney is plentiful, affordable and written in English. It is very easy to move around the city with public transportation.

BridgeClimb Official Site | Climb The Sydney Harbour Bridge

Bondi Beach

A tour highlight was Bondi Beach, Sydney’s largest beach and its closest ocean beach to the city center. All beaches in Sydney are free. Since the stop was brief, the best we could do was wet our feet in the water. It’d be worth spending more time here, especially if you’re a beach lover.

Bondi beach lifestyle – Surfing, swimming & more | Sydney.com

Taronga Zoo

We’d booked this excursion, including the ferry ride to and from the zoo, through Viator before leaving the USA.

Tickets & Tours – Taronga Zoo Sydney, Sydney – Viator

Taronga Zoo Sydney | Taronga Conservation Society Australia

It was a cool, rainy morning and very few visitors were there, making seeing the 4000+ animals, including a dolphin show, quite remarkable. Wonderful to see koala, kangaroo and platypus, natives to Australia, up close and personal.

Enviable view giraffes see daily.

The Royal Botanic Garden of Sydney

The Royal Botanic Garden Sydney (nsw.gov.au) Incredible. I could have spent days meandering through this area located near the Sydney Opera House. Free admission.

Aeonium plant ▷The house of SUCCULENT PLANTS- Photos and curiosities! (clubsuculentas.com)

Sydney Pubs

The history and importance of pubs was discussed on the prior ½ day city tour; thus, we frequented two of the more historical ones: The Hero of Waterloo and The Australian Hotel.

Sydney Bar, Club & Pub Tours (and other fun Things to Do) (viator.com)

The Oldest Pubs in Sydney, Australia (theculturetrip.com)

Darling Harbour

This harbour adjacent to the city centre of Sydney was a comfortable walk from our hotel. It is on the western outskirts of the central business district and is home to plenty of recreational and entertainment options, including the Jackson Luxury Cruise, which we boarded one stormy evening for a group dinner.

Your Official Guide To Darling Harbour | Discover Sydney | Darling Harbour

Sydney Harbour Luxury Cruise | The Jackson

Full Day Blue Mountain Tour

We booked this tour at the last moment, and it turned out to be one of the most memorable tours we experienced in Australia. Blue Mountains Tickets & Tours (and other Things to Do in Sydney) (viator.com)

The rugged mountains are 90 minutes west of Sydney. This vast landscape is filled with eroded valleys, a rainforest and soaring eucalyptus trees surrounded by villages offering world-class food, wine, culture and shopping.

Calmsley Hill City Farm

This interactive farm close to Sydney was the first stop. Raised on a North Dakota farm and currently living in Nebraska, this wasn’t a necessary stop for me. However, our van had riders from major metropolitan USA cities who greatly appreciated the experience. Everyone seemed taken by the koala, kangaroos and this beautiful horse.  Calmsley Hill City Farm

Lincoln’s Rock in the Blue Mountains

Lincoln’s Rock, Wentworth Falls | True Blue Mountains  
10 Stunning Lookouts in Australia’s Blue Mountains | LesterLost

Three Sisters

We were fortunate to also stop at the Eagle Hawk Lookout-a remote location with breathtaking views of the Blue Mountain peaks known as the “Three Sisters” rock formation.

Lunch

We enjoyed a delicious pre-ordered lunch at The Hydro Majestic’s-Boiler House-a historic hotel overlooking the picturesque Megalong Valley.

The Hydro Majestic Blue Mountains Hotel and Restaurants
Megalong Valley NSW – Find Accommodation, Walks & Camping (visitnsw.com)

Mt. Tomah Botanic Garden: Final & Favorite Stop of the Day

The views, scents, colors and designs were spectacular.

Blue Mountains Botanic Garden

Back to the USA

While we were enjoying Australia, our USA travel agent was working with the airlines to get us a refund for the portion of the trip we were unable to experience (New Zealand) and to attempt to get us to fly back from Sydney. Air New Zealand did not budge on this request.

We flew from Sydney to Auckland, New Zealand (the only thing we saw in New Zealand was the airport) and wouldn’t you know it…airline delays. Like all, we stood in line to get questions answered. What we didn’t expect was receiving $60 worth of airport food vouchers. One forgets that customs are different in different countries and that vouchers even for delays are freely handed out in New Zealand.

The flight from Auckland to Houston was 13 hours long.

Air New Zealand planes have greater seat capacity and the on-board crew seemed happier and more customer oriented than did our United crew to Brisbane. Both Australia and New Zealand’s airport processed passengers quicker than the USA does. Impressively, Brisbane’s airport used robots to process luggage upon check-in.

Houston, We Have a Problem, Again

We’ve arrived at the Houston International Airport multiple times after taking international flights. This was the worst experience yet. Thank goodness an alert luggage clerk informed us that Ken’s bag was not checked all the way to Omaha. But this meant standing in an endless line trying to get it retagged while frustrated passengers began yelling at one another and at agents behind the counter. Welcome to the USA!

The luggage area was super crowded as was the pre-check area of TSA.

On little sleep and with a nagging cough, we finally made it to the gate for our flight back to Omaha. The Houston United gate agent moved our seats from the back of the plane to the front. That was a welcome gift!

My coughing increased and I masked up.

What a nice surprise to receive a Facetime call from our son, Alex, and grandson, Jaxon, at the Houston Airport. Welcome Home, indeed.

Unwanted Souvenir

I returned with a souvenir: COVID.

We landed in Omaha at 11PM and by 3AM I was very ill and was seen by a medical team. The doctor is right: I’m a late bloomer. It was my first COVID experience.

After recovering, I realized how fortunate I was to get COVID at home rather than abroad or feel like I did when I got home while I was on the flights.

Noteworthy Tips

  • Book through a travel agent. Traveling has gotten unreliable and frustrating. These experts know how to book travel and how to quickly recover from flight interruptions. We met so many passengers who used online booking services and were directed to fend for themselves due to their booking choice.
  • Buy travel insurance.
  • Register with the country embassy prior to departing and enroll in the Smart Traveler Enrollment Program (STEP). Smart Traveler Enrollment Program (STEP) (state.gov)
  • Carry on three days’ worth of clothing and incidentals in case your luggage is lost or delayed.
  • Always carry your medications in their original bottles/containers. We were required to get a signed letter from our physician on letterhead for any prescription medications we traveled with. Always check country requirements before leaving the USA.
  • If two people are traveling together, pack half of each traveler’s clothes in each bag. If a bag is lost, you will each have clothing until the bag is found.
  • Rely on experts on the ground to find off-the-beaten path excursions/restaurants/etc. The Internet is a great starting point but seldom trumps local referrals.

Final Impressions

  • Australia is an easy country to travel to if you are an American. The citizens speak English and the customs (other than driving and walking on sidewalks) nearly mirror American customs.
  • The US dollar was favorable when we visited.
  • Australians seemed very relaxed compared to Americans. The stress levels seemed lower, and the crime rate is significantly lower than in the USA.
  • We met very few Americans other than Ken’s colleagues in Australia. We wondered if the travel distance and time has Americans choosing closer destinations.
  • “No worries” is the most used phrase there. It applies there, and perhaps can here.
  • We did not visit what Americans call “The Outback,” the Great Barrier Reef (12-hour drive north of Brisbane) or The Gold Coast (50 miles south of Brisbane). Each of these are worthy of a repeat visit.  

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11 Ways to Find Happiness in Retirement

Denise’s Viewpoint

Retirement is defined as an action or fact of leaving one’s job and ceasing to work. Or, the withdrawal of a jury from the courtroom to decide a verdict. I am not a fan of the word ‘retirement’ because both definitions sound so ending. I prefer Recreate, Reenergize or my favorite, Repurpose.

We repurpose everything to achieve something better from something that was already good and needed before. Why can’t we decide to have a new purpose? One that we recreate from our talents, career, work, hobbies and/or interests?

At Craft LifeStyle Management we work with our clients for who they are at the moment. We did not cause or create the life they had when coming under our care. Some clients have accomplished amazing things in the second chapter of their lives by finding new purpose and energy. Others have health issues and openly share they wish they’d have done more in life when they were physically able to. We also have clients who’ve chosen to rest, causing much atrophy to their minds and bodies. Sadly, they often think this time in their lives has no meaning.

The choices we make are ours. What we choose to do will determine how we live and our purpose in this stage of life. There is not a wrong or a right way. There are simply choices that belong to us.

Many think that when they retire, they are done. Thus, they withdraw. If this is what you choose, that is your choice. Maybe you don’t want to do anything more than hold down the recliner. Your health will deteriorate much sooner, but again, this is your choice.

We are at the age where many of our friends are dealing with this topic. It is invigorating to see what most of our friends are choosing in retirement. Things like joining gyms or other activities they never had time for prior to retirement.

Plan ahead for retirement. Make meaningful choices. Choices that are right for you.

Ways to Ensure Your Post-Career Years Are Filled with Purpose & Fulfillment

Find Meaningful Ways to Volunteer. Seek a cause you’re super passionate about and volunteer a couple times a month. It’s a very satisfying feeling giving back. BONUS: You may connect with a new social group-fellow volunteers.

Keep your brain working. Find something to stimulate your brain: Games on the computer, card or board games, sewing, writing, reading, photography, playing a musical instrument, trying a new recipe, learning a foreign language, etc.

Be social and reconnect with family and friends, including your spouse or partner. It may have been challenging to consistently connect when you worked full time. Heck. Live on the edge. Go out on a weeknight now and do your household shopping together mid-day, mid-week. Also, you are guaranteed an increase to your happiness by spending time playing and telling stories with your grandchildren. Take time to mend and renew valued relationships. Perhaps set up a weekly online chat with long-lost college, child or work friends. Reconnect.

Update your home. Does your house reflect the current you? If not, maybe it’s time to refresh your space with a new paint color or change up the furniture. This is a perfect time to declutter each room. This takes time but at the end you will feel proud of your updated space and more comfortable living there as it now reflects the present-day you.

Travel. Be adventurous. Push yourself out of your comfort zone. Learn something new by exploring new places, even if these are in your own community and state. Set a goal. Maybe visit all major league baseball stadiums or all national parks. Create a bucket or “no regrets list” and then start crossing items off the list as you complete them.

Renew or discover hobbies & interests. Maybe there’s something from your younger years that’s been dormant. Now is the time to re-engage and see if you still enjoy this hobby. Or, find a new one. Take an online course to test it out. Dig into your family history or write your own memoire.

Get moving. Regardless of age, exercise is always a mood booster. Staying active is important for all aspects of your health: physically, mentally and socially. Set a daily step count for your walks, attend regular exercise classes, and go swimming. Just do something active daily.

Research relocation. A growing trend is relocating for retirement. Make sure you’re clear about what makes you happy and that your finances allow this. Will happiness come from a warm climate, an urban landscape or something else? Do you desire to be near family, including grandchildren? Make a careful plan to boost your retirement happiness.

Simplify and limit distractions. Reflect on what matters most. Prioritize what is really important to you and limit worry, frustration and distractions affecting your sense of peace. Focus on the present by fully engaging in and enjoying the moment.

Stay positive. By now you know problems and health challenges arise. But you also have the life experience to navigate through these with confidence and grace. Happiness comes from this seasoned experience and understanding that things are not always going to be perfect or to your liking. There’s maturity in accepting the outcome anyway.

Seek help. Retirement offers a newfound sense of freedom and flexibility but also the realization that you may not be able to do everything on your own. Asking for help may allow you to stay in your own home, keep doing activities you enjoy and connecting with others. Don’t be too proud to seek assistance.

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More Information

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How to Feel Festive When You’re Not in the Holiday Spirit

What has your 2022 been like? I know you’ve had some real joyous days in your year and that you had the strength and courage to overcome any obstacles that came your way. I trust you can rejoice in experiencing another year and hope you are looking forward to 2023. I am.

At Craft LifeStyle Management, 2022 has flown by as the team and I worked tirelessly providing compassionate care to those in states of transition or requiring companion care at home. But here we are again at “the most wonderful time of the year.”

Measure Your Mood

Are you in a festive mood? Do you have merriment in your soul, or are you feeling a bit blue this season? If so, you are not alone.  For many, the lack of excitement for the holiday season is also matched by the feeling of guilt for its absence.

The holiday season can bring stress and depression. If we let it, this time of the year can be very demanding: shopping, baking, cooking meals, entertaining, cleaning, and attending gatherings outside of our own homes.

For some, poor health or concerns about a loved one’s health or even grieving a loss or death compounds the stress and depression. Many feel deep loneliness during the holidays.

Practical Tips to Minimize Stress

  • Recognize your holiday triggers. Maybe these are financial pressures or personal demands. Plan ahead for gift giving by setting a budget and shopping throughout the year. But now that the holidays are here, and it’s too late to shop throughout, don’t stress. Look at your list. Is there a way to minimize it? Is it truly necessary to buy for everyone on that list? NOTE: A few years back I found the courage to ask a group of friends if a gift exchange was really necessary between all of us? To my surprise, everyone was thrilled not to exchange. Now, our gift is not gifting anymore. 🎁🎁 Remember. Gifts do not equal happiness or replace face-to-face connection. Create a list and stick to it. Cut back on the entertaining and baking. Learn to say, “No.” Friends will understand if you cannot attend every party or event.
  • Lower expectations. Let’s be real. Christmas feels more festive as a child, or when children are present because there’s a sense of excitement and magic. Don’t set yourself up for failure thinking that you’ll feel this same youthful wonder as you age. Anticipation leads to disappointment. Practice being in the moment. Enjoy the holiday you have not the one you had in the past or the one you hoped you’d have.
  • Appreciate your loved ones for who they are. Hoping and wishing someone in your family was different or acted in a more mature way rarely causes them to change for the family holiday gathering. This holiday, accept your loved ones for who they are. Avoid bringing up contentious subject matter and past grievances. Save these conversations for a more appropriate time.
  • Stick with healthy habits. Overindulging in food or alcohol only makes you feel guilty, especially if you’ve been working hard on wellness all year. Eat a healthy snack before going to holiday parties. Limit your alcohol consumption. NOTE: Alcohol is a depressant and may make you feel worse. Get plenty of sleep and keep to your exercise routine. Remember to take your medications. Also, avoid obsessing on others’ photographs on social media highlighting their celebrations and livelihood. Unbeknown to many, this causes considerable undue stress.
  • Engage in self-care. It’s amazing what even 15 minutes alone can do to boost your spirits. Take a relaxing bath. Read a good book. Paint your nails. Go on a lovely winter hike. Fresh air and exercise improve your mental health and are a great way to de-stress. Saying “No” is also a means of self-care.
  • Think of others. Call someone you haven’t spoken to in a while. Facetime with friends and family in other states. Volunteer at a homeless shelter or at the local hospital or nursing home. Buy gifts from local artists and small businesses.Host a zoom caroling event.
  • Ask for help. Assign entrees or side dishes to family coming to the holiday dinner. Enlist your children, partner or friends to help decorate your home. Shop with a friend. Lean on your support system if you are overwhelmed. Reach out to a mental health professional if you are feeling severely depressed. They will be able to help you navigate your overwhelming emotions and offer ways to manage symptoms.

Ways to Feel More Festive

  • Decorate your home. Pull out the old ornaments and recall the story associated with each as you place it on the tree. Sit by the lit tree after work. There is something calming and relaxing associated with Christmas tree lights.
  • Send Christmas cards. Make a list and mail cards to elderly relatives and other friends and family who don’t regularly see your social media posts.
  • Bake treats. Drop them off at the local police or fire station, a homeless shelter or at a select list of your favorite service providers.
  • Watch holiday movies. These movies start airing already in early November. Check the listings and find your favorite ones, or find a new one.
  • Listen to Christmas music. Songs of your youth will bring back many cherished holiday memories.
  • Start a new tradition. Attend a basketball game on Christmas Day or go to the movies. Get your family to agree to skip gift giving and instead donate money to a charity. Or splurge on a family get-away, a bucket list location.
Remember, it’s okay not to feel like Jolly Old St. Nick during the holiday season. Be kind to yourself and your loved ones. However, and with whomever, you celebrate the holiday season, my wish is that your heart is full of love and your days content. 🎄🎁😊

As always, if Craft LifeStyle Management can assist you and your family in any way, contact us. We are here to serve you. ❤-Denise-

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How to Get Your Elderly Relatives to Talk to You

Thanksgiving and Christmas are holidays where families of many generations customarily gather. Initially we plan for that “Norman Rockwell” gathering where there is much joy and delight in seeing everyone. Hugs and kisses are exchanged. Then afterwards, it is not uncommon for age groups to naturally split off. Afterall, as people we gravitate toward those most like us.

This upcoming holiday season, I’m proposing a shift in this age group splitting. I’m advocating for encouraging younger generations to spend time with the senior members of their families. There is much to be learned from their insight, wisdom and stories.

Overcome Challenges

Talking to seniors can be challenging. Some seniors can start to have difficulty speaking, listening, and processing information which all affect their ability to communicate. Some older adults appear to not want to participate in conversations, especially in a group.

Please understand their reasons for not participating. It likely isn’t because they are older and don’t’ know what is going on. For instance, if the older adult has hearing aids, group background noise causes them to turn the hearing aids down so not to hurt their ears. This defeats the purpose of being in the group.

Or the person doesn’t have hearing aids and should. If they are consistently asking, “What did you say?” or say, “Speak up!” these are clues that their hearing should be evaluated, and hearing aids are likely needed.

Many groups with older adults engage in “ping pong talk”. Older members of the group may have memory loss or slowly process information. They are not able to follow the conversation or understand all that is being said, especially if it’s said quickly. Therefore, the conversation goes back and forth and back and forth, leading to frustration, or worse yet, silence.

Older adults do want to be engaged in conversation. HINT: It’s best to do that in a two-to-three-person group setting and to speak slowly and listen for understanding.

Youngster Pushback

And it’s not unusual to hear a younger person say, “I never know what to talk to Grandma about.” Of course, these different generations have dissimilar experiences and opinions. However, conversations with senior family members can be richly rewarding and create lasting memories. If done well, these interactions will connect generations and form bonds.

Try the conversation starters below. If the elders have memory deficits, they likely will go to a profound memory time of their life like childhood, or when they entered the military, began having children or some other major milestone.

Let them tell you about these significant moments. Engage. Actively listen and ask questions as if you were right there in the same time period they are sharing.

BONUS: Talking to senior citizens is not only good for social interaction it is good for their brain health. It requires long term memory recall, imagination and creativity.

Tips on Talking to Elderly People

  • Don’t talk down to elders or treat them as children. It is condescending.
  • Interact with them as adults. Avoid talking too slowly and loudly and overly simplifying words. Speaking loudly does not mean your message will be understood.
  • Talk in a noise-free, distraction-free space. No blaring TV or competing distractions.
  • Offer encouragement and support.
  • Limit unsolicited advice/directives. These are adults with real-world adult experiences. Remember, a family gathering is not the time to give advice or discuss issues that will upset elder family members. HINT: Never gang up on them. Avoid: “Mom, Happy Holidays! We also want to talk about you moving out of your home.” Designate another time for these courageous conversations.
  • Actively listen. Maintain eye contact and use your body language (leaning in, smiling, nodding) to show you’re paying attention. Give verbal confirmation that you’re hearing and understanding what is being shared. A gentle hand or shoulder touch shows you are present and connected to the speaker. Always sit at eye level. Never stand while speaking. This body language is upsetting to many, especially those with memory and cognitive impairments.
  • Slow down. Give the person time to process what is being said and to respond at their own rate of recall. “Air space” is good. Letting the elder think, process and respond before going on and asking more questions or moving to another subject.
  • Use names not pronouns. Say Uncle Ken, not he or him. It keeps the loved one focused on whom you are speaking about.
  • Don’t interrupt. Doing so may cause the person to lose track of the conversation flow. It can also cause confusion and result in a feeling of inadequacy.
  • Use real names not terms like “honey,” “sweetie,” etc.
  • Avoid arguing. Understand there are differing opinions, many as a result of different generations/ages/cultures. Never use profanity or foul language. It is always better to redirect a conversation to a completely different topic than to argue. If the conversation returns to the uncomfortable subject, most of the time mentioning that you have nothing to add and want to move on works.
  • Focus on one topic to discuss before moving on to the next topic. Jumping around from subject to subject can cause confusion, especially for those with dementia.
  • Use an iPad or writing tablet for seniors who have communication challenges related to speech and/or hearing.
  • Leave the person feeling relevant and respected. Don’t be bossy. Ask instead of issuing orders. Offer choices whenever, and wherever, possible. This creates a sense of control in one’s own life and a feeling of independence.
  • Don’t be afraid to laugh and brighten each other’s days.

12 Enjoyable Conversation Starters

Of course, there are endless questions & topics one could use to begin a conversation with older members of a family.

Try these 12 fun ones this upcoming holiday season.

  1. Tell me about your favorite Thanksgiving/Christmas memory as a child.
  2. What do you think about computers and smartphones and what was your world like before this technology was available? What is your favorite gadget today?
  3. Are there any foods you used to love to eat that are no longer available today? What is your favorite holiday cookie? Do you still bake them?
  4. Share your college life experience with me. What did you study? What did you do on the weekends? What activities were you involved with? Did you work while going to school? Are you an active alumnus today? Why?
  5. How did you meet your spouse? What was dating like? What age did you get married? Describe your wedding and early married life together.
  6. When you were a child, what was your dream for your life? Did it happen? How or why not?
  7. What Hollywood star or politician did you admire from your youth and whom do you admire today?
  8. Describe a gift you received early on in your life that you’ve kept and explain why it’s so special.
  9. Did you believe in Santa Claus when you were a kid? What was your favorite toy?
  10. How have you coped with loss in your life? What tips can you share?
  11. Share some of your favorite memories growing up with your parents and siblings.
  12. What are you most proud of in your life? Notice how they are living the happy episode all over again as it is shared.

Here’s to a joyful intergenerational holiday season!

Wishing you and yours a Thanksgiving filled with creating lasting memories with those you love.

In this season of gratitude, let me say thank you to all of you who have trusted the care of your loved ones to my team and I here at Craft LifeStyle Management. We are humbled and deeply grateful. We treasure and appreciate our relationship with you and yours.

Also, thank you to the hard-working, dedicated team at CLM that works tirelessly to provide expert, compassionate care to all.

Happy Thanksgiving!

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