What Our Children Teach Us
Alex celebrated his 22nd birthday on November 27th. He’s preparing to graduate from college on December 10, 2016. It’s been a reflective and joyous time for our family.
The lessons I shared when the following article was first published in 2001 remain relevant today. I’m a lifelong learner. It is phenomenal to be taught by my kid. It’s even better to look back and recall memories while learning from him.
Enjoy this post, perhaps recalling lessons learned while raising your kids.
In my 40 years of life, my six-year old son Alex has been my greatest teacher about life and on how to break old patterns, behaviors and habits. He’s taught me to have fun. I’ve laughed more. Life with him is less serious. I try to live in the moment. I want to capture the sensation of experiences, big and small with my kid.
20 Lessons My Kid Taught Me
Alex taught me it is more than okay, it is awakening to:
Run wildly in the rain pretending to score a touchdown on the wet lawn.
2. Finger paint with polka music in the background.
3. Make up silly rhyming stories and giggle endlessly at one’s own creativity.
4. Build blanket forts and eat lunch underneath them.
5. Wrestle on the bed using self-titled moves, like the mashed potato masher and the rutabaga rumble.
6. Dance to The Beatles in the family room on a Friday night.
7. Eat ice cream for breakfast and eggs for dinner.
8. Be completely open and honest and tell it like it’s felt.
9. Read books on the front porch with a flashlight.
10. Lie on the golf course in the dark and star gaze.
11. Build large cities, surrounded by volcanoes, instead of sand castles at the beach.
12. Ask why?
13. Say, “I’m really MAD at you!”
14. Thank God during nighttime prayers for the chocolate shake at bedtime.
15. Belly laugh at the priest’s jokes in church.
16. Wear clothes that don’t always match.
17. Lie on the floor, build corrals and play farm. Let the cows share a pen with the pigs and the chickens share with the horses.
18. Make up new rules for family board games.
19. Walk to the pond and feed the turtles and ducks hot dog buns.
20. Tell your parents, “I love you!” once a day.
Make a list of lessons you’re learning from your kids. If they’re still young, put the list away. Pull it out at one of life’s significant milestones, like graduation or a wedding. Did the lessons stick? Do your kids still follow their own teachings? It’s a great reminder of the joy of parenting. It also captures language and events that might have been forgotten.
Share this with others learning from their kids.
Copyright. November 2016. Linda Leier Thomason.
All Rights Reserved
Version published Momscape.com 2001